Alright dear readers, “Love Guru” is back with part 2 of the ‘Precise Action Plan for Getting Your Ex Back”. Where did we leave during our recent conversation about being a better human being to convince your ex-boyfriend to get back? Hmm … we talked about the manipulation tactics that are to be avoided, respect and many other elements that can strengthen an apparently broken relationship.
But most importantly, I also mentioned that this article series isn’t restricted for our female readers – guys can read them too. Granted that a man desperately wants to get ex-girlfriend back immediately, the Precise Action plan will help you achieve those goals eventually. Go through the following passages to get an idea about what we haven’t covered so far…
- Respect Him For What He Is:
While researching on this topic, I stumbled upon a very interesting Yahoo Answers string. This girl said that it was her third time with his ex boyfriend. They had already broken off first two times and now, thinking that third time is a charm, they have decided to mend their relationship. What she also mentioned was a lot of arguments and how her ex boyfriend used to annoy her with his measly habits.
The thing is that when you are living with someone, tiny little actions, such as; messing up with the laundry, sitting up with your legs on the sofa, leaving ash in the ashtray and not walking the dog, they all matter a lot. Initially, guys and girls don’t pay much attention to them until they become a headache. If your boyfriend or girlfriend belongs to this species of “messy” creatures, there’s a great way to help them change themselves.
Start respecting your partner for whatever he or she is. While acknowledging the fact that their particular habit is nasty, don’t put too much pressure on them to change all of a sudden. Take it a little slow – bit by bit, until your partner starts realizing his/her errors.
Respect also means giving your partner privacy. If you want to get ex boyfriend back after breakup, you should at least convey your new resolutions to them. There’s a high probability that he will give this relationship another shot – granted that he isn’t seeing anyone else already.
- Love Begets Love… Not True In Many Cases:
Love is a beautiful emotion. It can ruin a relationship; it can strengthen a relationship. It’s more like a dual edged blade philosophy. Too much love will start to make your boyfriend feel like as if he’s hooked to a tight chain. He needs space, some time alone with his buddies and etc. You get the idea, right? Give him some space to spend time with his “man friends”.
I have personally seen many relationships going sour just because of too much love. Either it’s the girl or guy, always molly cuddling the partner, until it gets way beyond the limits. Forget about texting him 24/7 if he leaves the house for 5 minutes. The ‘I miss you’ texts, Facebook messages, emails and everything else looks a little corny in the beginning but it eventually gets quite irritating.
The next time if he says, “Oh-nothing-I’m-just-seeing-how-the-Zulu-tribes-get-married’ kind of reply to your “Hey honey what’s up” inquiry, don’t be surprised. Love is a good thing but keep it under control. Too much of anything is never good.
That’s it for today. I hope that the above tips will help you get back with ex as soon as possible. It’s all about communicating and conveying your feelings after the break up. Don’t expect your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to listen to you immediately. Give them some time and you’ll see how they will be more than willing to give another chance to the beautiful relationship you once used to have.
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